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A happy foreign couple
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With pressure from families and careers, a staggering 30 percent of middle-aged couples give up on sex, according to a new survey.
The survey, the first of its kind to measure intimacy between middle-aged couples in China, was conducted by American pharmaceutical manufacturer Eli Lilly Company and China Population Communication Center.
Interviewing 32,906 people in 10 big cities including Beijing and Guangzhou, the poll found that middle-aged couples in the Chinese mainland seldom communicate in their daily life, and often rate their sex lives poorly.
The survey suggests that the major problems affecting marriages are lack of communication, arguments and unsatisfactory sex.
While 46 percent of respondents said they believe a satisfactory sex life promotes intimacy between couples, most couples admitted that their sex life has deteriorated since their wedding.
Around 45 percent of couples said that the husband has sexual dysfunction. Of those, 76 percent said they feel frustrated.
Specifically, 30 percent of middle-aged couples and 25 percent of couples younger than 30 have given up sex altogether as a result of physical or psychological problems related to stress.
Many couples also said they were frustrated at the lack of day-to-day intimacy in their lives.
According to the survey, 41 percent of middle-aged couples only kiss and cuddle at home when their children are not around.
About 25 percent only want to mind their own business when they are left alone, either just talking or not communicating at all.
The older the couples are, the less likely they are to communicate or act intimately, found the survey.
Another notable finding was that family responsibilities often lead to a decrease in communication - 37 percent of respondents said pressure from concerns over their children's education, caring for parents or finances had led to less communication with their spouse.
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(China Daily)
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一項(xiàng)最新調(diào)查顯示，竟有30%的中年夫婦因家庭和工作的壓力，而放棄了性生活。
這項(xiàng)針對(duì)我國(guó)中年夫妻親密狀況的首次調(diào)查是由美國(guó)禮來(lái)藥物制造商和中國(guó)人口宣傳教育中心聯(lián)合開(kāi)展的。
此調(diào)查對(duì)北京、廣州等10個(gè)大城市的共32906人進(jìn)行了訪(fǎng)問(wèn)，結(jié)果發(fā)現(xiàn)，大陸的中年夫婦缺乏日常交流，而且對(duì)性生活的滿(mǎn)意度也較低。
調(diào)查表明，影響婚姻質(zhì)量的主要問(wèn)題在于缺乏溝通、爭(zhēng)吵以及性生活不和諧。
46%的受訪(fǎng)對(duì)象認(rèn)為令人滿(mǎn)意的性生活能夠使夫妻倆更加親密，而大多數(shù)夫妻則坦言婚后性生活越來(lái)越糟糕。
約45%的受訪(fǎng)者說(shuō)丈夫患有性功能障礙，其中76%的人稱(chēng)對(duì)此感到很失落。
30%的中年夫婦以及25%年齡在30歲以下的夫婦因由壓力所導(dǎo)致的生理和心理問(wèn)題，完全不過(guò)性生活。
此外，很多夫婦說(shuō)他們對(duì)日常生活中缺乏親密行為感到失望。
據(jù)調(diào)查，41%的中年夫婦僅在孩子不在家的時(shí)候接吻或擁抱。
約25%的夫婦在這種時(shí)間里各做各的事，要么互相說(shuō)說(shuō)話(huà)，要么根本不交流。
調(diào)查發(fā)現(xiàn)，年齡越大的夫婦互相交流的越少，而且所做的親密行為也越少。
另一個(gè)重要發(fā)現(xiàn)是家庭責(zé)任通常是導(dǎo)致溝通減少的主要原因。37%的受訪(fǎng)者稱(chēng)教育孩子、照顧老人以及經(jīng)濟(jì)問(wèn)題等造成的壓力是導(dǎo)致和伴侶之間交流減少的主要原因。
（英語(yǔ)點(diǎn)津姍姍編輯）
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